So, what do I discover about happiness. Point 1: it's a choice. Point 2: it's determined 50% by genes and 10% circumstantially. Not such great news if your family leans towards negativity and you're not in such a great place in your life. The good news, though, is point 3: 40% of happiness is determined by our behaviour. Here are my pick of the best ways to maximise on that 40%:
- Smile (trick your brain into thinking everything's OK)
- Catch yourself negatively self-talking, and stop it
- Sit up straight again
- Share positive compliments with others
- Have your own little secret (jump around in the bathroom, dance like you're 5 again, talk in a silly voice to your dog)
- Flirt with a random person
- Breathe deeply
- When you start thinking too deeply, shove on some upbeat music and dance, dance, dance
- Talk as though you're happy. It's not a 'crap' day when it rains, merely a 'rainy' day.
- Plan a treat
- Clear out clutter
- Get outside
- Do something totally new
- Clear out your wardrobe
- Cull your facebook friends
I love these sort of 'empowering' things, and I 'ain't sceptical about them either. Long may this last.
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